Know Your Spots: The Male G-Spot
The Male G-Spot
The first question you may have is, “What is the male G-spot?” Good question. The male G-spot is the sexual equivalent of the female G-spot. It’s in a hard-to-reach place, it’s often considered a myth and it’s loaded with eye openers.
It is not a myth, however. The male G-spot is very real indeed. Maybe you know it by its everyday name: The prostate gland.
I’m sure you’ve heard your man complain about having his prostate checked, but don’t let that deter you. Having a prostate exam is no more sexually stimulating than having a pap, ladies, but you still let him play down there, right? It’s the same concept.
The prostate is a very sensitive gland this is easily accessible in different ways. By stimulating this gland, you will help your man achieve a longer erection and a much stronger orgasm. The prostate has many more nerve endings in it than the head of his penis, which is why it’s so pleasurable for him when you stimulate it.
WHERE TO LOCATE IT?
The prostate is located inside your man’s body under his bladder. It is most easily accessible through his anus. "Yes that's right ladies, his anus".
I know he’ll hesitate. That’s an uncomfortable area for a lot of guys to think of sexually. It’s an uncomfortable area for many women to consider in a sexual manner as well! But you shouldn’t let its location cause you hesitation. The male G-spot is one of the most erotically tantalizing places on your man’s body.
The easiest and best way to find the male G-spot is to insert your finger inside his anus. Once the tip is about two inches deep, press against the the side facing his bladder. You’re looking for a small lump, about the size of a walnut. Once you’ve found it you’ll feel it right away.
Before you begin, their are a few rules to consider:
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I’m sure there are places on your body where you’re hesitant to let him touch, so be conscious that he’ll probably be hesitant as well. Make sure your man is already sexually stimulated and ready to go before you attempt to find his G-spot. Once you’re sure he’s in the mood (you’ll know when), use your forefinger and gently circle the outside of his anus. The best time to do this is when you’re giving him oral sex. He’ll be much more relaxed and open to whatever pleasure you’re going to give him next. If he doesn’t tense up and try to stop you when you begin to touch his anus, then it’s safe to insert your finger.
Before you do, you need to make sure your fingernails are cut short. I mean it. You don’t want to scratch him on the inside. That could be painful. Worse, it could cause a serious infection. The inside of your anus has very thin skin and a lot of bacteria. Safety first! Second, you must use lubrication. I recommend that you keep a little bit of lube by your bed. You never know when you might need it, right? Nothing breaks the mood like getting up to fetch the lube out of the hall closet, so keep it close by.
A good trick. Get some flavored lubrication and use it on him when you’re giving him oral sex. You can slip a little bit on your finger in anticipation of G-spot stimulation. It’s secret and convenient, and most importantly it doesn’t break the mood!
Now that you’re ready, and you’re already giving him oral pleasure, slowly slide your lubricated finger into his anus. Use your index finger. If he begins to squirm and push you away, stop what you’re doing and ask him gently for his permission. Tell him you want to please him, tell him it won’t hurt, and tell him you will stop immediately whenever he asks. This is one of those things you might have to sweet-talk him into. Once he agrees, you can continue your slow exploration.
Slide your finger along the inner wall with your fingertip facing his bladder. When you feel the little lump you’ve found his g-spot.
HOW TO STIMULATE HIS G-SPOT
Once you’ve found his G-spot, all you need to do is gently caress it back and forth. Slowly rub your finger along the inside wall, stroking his prostate up and down with minimal pressure. If you really want to get him going, use the same rhythm you’re using as you give him oral sex.
If your man is not comfortable with penetration, that’s not the end of the world. Do you know that spot between his testicles and his anus, that little area underneath his scrotum? That’s another way to stimulate his prostate. That particular area – the perineum – is one of the most sensitive places on a man’s body. All of the nerve endings from his prostate gland can be stimulated from this area because of the way the nerves are connected.
If you gently stroke it back and forth, tease it with your fingertip, or even lick it with your tongue, you’re going to give him almost the same amount of pleasure you would if you were stimulating his G-spot from the inside.
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