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HOST a Nauti NZ PARTY & Get Discount Shopping!!

Are you ready to HOST a Party? So are we! Simply provide a few details and we’ll put you in touch with a Consultant in your area, who will then take you through the planning process.

 

What to Expect

At your Nauti NZ Party, a trained consultant will come to your home and provide a day/night of unforgettable fun for you and your girlfriends/boyfriends. Learn about exciting ways to spice things up in the bedroom to sexual health benefits. Your guests will be able to learn how each product works and how it can enhance your most intimate moments. The best part? Shopping and Ordering is confidential.

Add a touch of Nauti

Our Sex Toy Parties can have a theme of their own Love, Sex, Romance, Nauti & Nice etc. Themed parties are a great way to set the mood, if you’ve had one of our parties in the past then why not host one with a different theme. Stuck for ideas? Select one of our many options.

Nauti Theme Pictured: Nauti Night Out

Pick a Theme of your own from the following selections:

50 Shades of Nauti
Back On The Market
Chocoholics
Cheese & Wine
Girls Night In
Nauti Night Out
Bachelorette
Divorce Celebration
Co-Workers
Mrs. Nauti & Mrs. Nice
Couples Night In
Chocolate & Wine
Sex Goddess
After Five
Dirty 30's
Corporate Events 
Birthday Celebrations

    The options are endless, your theme not on the list? Nauti NZ will adapt to your required theme. Are you excited yet?

     

    Specialist In Hens Nights

    Alongside our themed parties our consultants specialise in Hens Nights. We provide everything you need for the soon to be Mrs and some! A Nauti hens party is not your typical hens, we have games tailored for the bride and her entourage, all you need to dress the bride for her last night out as a Miss, plus lots of giveaways and spot prizes. You will receive 2.5 hours of fun! Including one of Nauti NZ’s AMAZING Sex Toy Parties.

     

     

     Be Set for a Successful Party

    Be Excited! Enthusiasm is contagious. When you show how excited you are, your guests will be excited too! With so many fun games to be had, products to see, sex ed and fun SHOPPING! Everyone loves a party!

    Over Invite! Invite your close girlfriends and ask them to bring a friend or two. Great attendance will increase party sales, which will increase your hostess rewards. Nauti Tip: A facebook event could be a great way to keep everyone up to date.

    Reminder. Be sure to collect RSVPs and remind everyone about the party, especially the week of your party. Let’s get this party started!

     

    Hostess Rewards

    As the hostess, you get the mostess. Every sale at your party counts towards your hostess rewards. When you book a party your consultant will get you started with a $20 voucher to spend on the night.

     

    How to Pay

    You can pay by Visa Debit, Credit Card or Bank account deposit. However, at the consultants discretion payment types can be flexible. 

     

    When Can I Expect My Orders

    Once your party has been finalised, your party consultant will place your order. We then pick, pack and distribute to the consultant who packages individual orders and delivers them to the hostess.

     

    Interested In Becoming A Consultant

    Are you sick of your day job or your boss? Ready to become your own boss; or looking for a new fun exciting adventure? Join our group of Nauti Party Consultants today so you can start reaping the rewards tomorrow. For more information contact us here TO START OFF YOUR BUSINESS LIKE A BOSS!!

     

    10 Reasons Why you should be using Sex Toys!!

    For most people, holding a sex toy for the first time can be an uncomfortable experience. But really, using a sex toy doesn’t make you a pervert. A sex toy can actually make you feel more connected with your own body and your senses and the best part is that you can use it with your partner to bring that naughty spark back in the bedroom.

    1. Take off the pressure

    Whether you are in a long term relationship or having sex with a fu#k buddy, sex could put pressure on you to perform well. Keeping in mind 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Let’s face it; it takes time for women to get that big O. You need to spend extra time down south to make sure her mood and arousal levels are enough for sex. Your tongue and hands could be of great help but there are times you need a sidekick to make sure the work is done. At the same time, you feel less pressured to make her orgasm and just focus on sex in general.

    2. Take pressure off your partner

    Believe it or not, even your girl feels the pressure to either orgasm or make you orgasm. No matter how long you two are going out, it will always be challenging for you to hit the right spots and vice versa. This is where sex toys come in.

    When you use a sex toy, you are not only taking the pressure off yourself, but you also take the pressure off her, too. She doesn’t have to try too hard to get that big O. This could also be a reason why it’s difficult for her to climax.

    In the end, sex becomes more relaxed and comfortable.

    3. Sex Toys lead to multiple orgasms

    You already know that sex toys take the pressure off you and your lady. Do you know what this means? This could lead to multiple orgasms.

    Think about it. You don’t have to worry too much if you are doing great or hitting the right spots when you are down there. This means you could focus and channel your energy on other erogenous areas of her body and not just down there. Believe it or not, a simple vibrator could set you up for an intense night full of orgasms. Go ahead and get your girl one or two.

    4. Give your hands a break

    When it comes to oral sex, your lips, tongue and hands will do most of the work. At the same time, you have to be good enough to synchronize these three organs to ensure that you are giving her the best pleasure not just down there,but also throughout her entire body.

    Of course, you’re human and you get tired, too. This is where a sex toy could be helpful to you. It gives your hands or tongue some rest down there and you can use it for another purpose, too. There are instances where you need to get some rest, but your girl is so in the mood, turning her down will hurt her feelings. In this case, having a vibrator on hand will make you both happy.

    5. Sex Toys allow you to explore

    Admit it. Sex can be too predictable. This is why many sex experts encourage couples to explore and try something new in bed instead of doing the usual things. Did you know that using sex toys is a good start when it comes to exploring?

    The truth is, sex toys are not just for pleasure. These remote-controlled toys encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and try unconventional things. Think about a vibrator that you can control from the other side of the room, or butt plugs for anal action, or whips and cuffs in case you are in the mood for some bondage.

    During the process, you will find yourself doing and experimenting on new positions and you can even use a sex toy as your guide. The best part of this is that it creates a deeper and greater sexual bond.

    6. Bring fantasies to life

    You have probably seen it in porn. The dude ties up a girl and sticks tiny vibrators on both her nipples and clitoris area. Then, he will use a bigger vibrator for down there and sometimes, give the girl double penetration.

    Which Leads You To This Question: Can You Do That, Too?

    The answer is yes. Sex toys could help bring your fantasies to life. Bring out those whips and cuffs and play the role of Christian Grey. You could also try the teacher-student or police officer-offender roles. Then use those sex toys to make the play more believable. You could also put your curiosity to bed, as well.

    Don’t be shy. Your girl will love it too, as long as you both agree on who you will be in your next session.

    7. Sex Toys are alternatives, when your not around!

    Let’s say you are a soldier assigned in Iraq, or perhaps you are working overseas or working in the United States, but your wife or girlfriend is in a different state.

    You won’t get sex often and neither will she. Cheating and infidelity are a big no-no, as well. In that case, having sex toys on hand could be a great alternative.

    Sex toys could replace your role in case you are missing in action. It is safer and STD-free, as long as you use and clean the toys properly. You both don’t need to channel your sexual energy on other people just to get pleasure. Sex toys are good enough, especially when you are feeling lonely and horny. 

     

     

    8.Sex Toys make sex better

    The problem with vanilla sex, yes as in you’re the one on top, is that it is predictable. You know what’s going to happen next, and there is less excitement inside the bedroom. If you are both in the mood to experiment, then you’ll go past missionary, woman on top or dog style.

    This is why sex toys are great. There is less pressure to make everything as pleasurable as possible, and you could use your hands on other areas and just let the vibrator do its thing. You also both let go of your inhibitions, which make sex more exciting. If that’s not enough to convince you, the Journal of Sexual Medicine has published studies that links vibrator use with positive sexual function.

    9. Sex Toy shopping is a good bonding experience

    Many people raised their brows when they found out that Rihanna spent thousands of dollars shopping for sex toys.

    For the conservative minds, she is not setting a good example for the youth. However, those with open minds will tell you that this shouldn’t be a big deal.

    The truth is that shopping for sex toys could be a great bonding experience for you and your girl. You get to choose what toys to use inside the bedroom and just let your dirty minds do the work. At the same time, you will enjoy finding the right toys fit for your needs.

    A piece of advice: don’t be afraid to talk to sales people. They will help you and recommend the right toys for you. 

     

     

    10. It just feels GOOD

    Sex is good. The proper use of vibrators and other sex toys makes you feel good. Therefore, it follows that the use of sex toys in sex will make you feel good. According to an experiment published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, vibrators suggest a sign of a positive and healthy sex life. In fact, women who used vibrators reported higher sexual arousal, desire and better sex. Although hidden in drawers or on top of the cabinet, using a vibrator and other sex toys makes you and your girl feel good. More importantly, it’s not just about getting and giving pleasure down south. At the end of the day, it’s also about being able to share certain part of your sexuality with your ladylove.

    In other words, never underestimate a battery-operated toy. Aside from providing pleasure down there, sex toys also deepen the relationship and intimacy between you and your girl. It signifies your openness and willingness to try and do different things in bed. At the same time, this means you and your girl share everything, including your sexual interests and desires. Well, what are you waiting for? Go ahead and invest in some sex toys. Just make sure your ladylove is into it, too.

    How To Make Her Squirt

    7 Easy Steps To Make Your Girl Squirt!!

    If you haven't made her squirt yet then now's the time to start! Did you know that a squirting orgasm is the most powerful orgasm a female can have? Trust me they are. If you learn how to make a woman squirt a few things will most likely happen.

    1. She will soak the sheets
    2. She will beg you for more
    3. She will tell all her friends

    Take number 2 seriously, she will become obsessed with her new found orgasm! Once you learn the technique (If you don't already know) you will be able to take her places she has has never been before sexually.

    Following these simple steps will take the pressure off you to last longer in bed. Don't worry there's no need for acrobatic positions, once you get your hands on the magic button she'll be turned on time and time again.

    Step 1

    First warm her up, start with 1 finger and get her pussy wet.

    Step 2

    Once she is “warmed up” we are going to locate her g-spot. Her G-spot is on the top wall of her vagina halfway between the vaginal opening and cervix. The spot should feel a little rough, almost like the surface of a walnut.

    Step 3

    Now use two fingers and use a beckoning motion, you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.

    Step 4

    As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you’re doing it right, and she’s comfortable with it, you’ll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy.

    Step 5

    As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, start doing it harder. The more she thrashes from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you’re slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you’re still pressing up against that g-spot even as you’re slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon.  You’re moving into overdrive now.

    Step 6

    Now here’s the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It’s just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that’s when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner.

    Step 7

    About 10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON’T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She’ll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you’re prepared.

     


     

    Extra Strong Vibrators For The Power Queens

    Are you an Orgasm addict? Or perhaps the preferred term is Power Queen?

    There is nothing worse than a sub-par vibrator; of course, we’re talking about the ones which just don’t quite get you where you’d like to be.

    For many of us women, the more power a vibrator has, the better! But fear not, it doesn’t have to be a matter of trial and error when discovering the ideal sex toy, as there are some vibrators on the market that are renowned for their power, and the intense sensations and pleasures, which with they never fail to deliver. In addition, there are a few rules which are worth noting, when the time comes for buying a new, powerful sex toy.

    Female sex toys which are powered by actually plugging into the wall can be powerful; and never go flat, but not all female sex toys that plug into the wall are going to deliver you with the intense power you desire, with the new innovations of rechargeable sex toys their energy is positively boundless. One of the most often mentioned, eminently regarded high-powered sex toys are Wand Vibrators; otherwise known as Body Wands, and there is a reason why Wand vibes are in a class of their own. These toys come in many styles, from smaller wands to larger wands, to smart wands. One of the most iconic examples, and leading products as you may already know is the Palm Power Rechargeable Massager; one of Nauti NZ's top selling vibrators of the year!

    If you are lucky enough to own one already, you are sure to be aware of the class that epitomizes them. Wand vibrator heads are made from long lasting, high-grade silicone, and therefore they can withstand a great deal of use and pressure, in addition to the appliance of the many attachments available for these types of toys.

    Is it waterproof? With all the designers focus being put into the power of this cloud 9 orgasmic device maybe the thought of making it waterproof was forgotten about! The Palm Power is splash proof so squirter's need not worry too much.

    Toys which offer a capacity for multi-function, with regards to speed, and type of vibration, can add range and variation to your power, as you can slowly amplify the intensity as and when you need to. Bullet vibrators offer direct stimulation, and are superb when used in conjunction with other vibrators, for example, on the clitoris, or the nipples, to create a range of sensory play options which never fail to tease, and turn on!

    The We-Vibe Tango has become the bullet of choice among sex toy reviewers and lovers of pin pointed power. With its classic bullet shape it can be used solo, is non-invasive during penetrative sex and it’s waterproof and rechargeable too.

    If you want a rechargeable vibrator and/or something alternative to a massage wand, you will more likely find the power you desire from one of the leading manufacturers such as Fun Factory or We-Vibe among other top brands. Through their research and development, their build quality and motor strength will provide the power you desire whilst being made of high quality silicone.

    Choosing toys made of silicone increases the vibe’s power-rating, as the sensational vibrations can travel easily through silicone to their targeted area; alas, providing you with an undoubtedly powerful and mind blowing experience. So by checking the toy’s power method and voltage, the material it is made from and its specific style of stimulation, can all be indicative as to what to expect from best vibrators ensuring that you’re never left feeling dissatisfied, or disillusioned with a new adult toy purchase – so even the most power mad among us will be sure to find their supreme sex toy. 

     

    8 Top Tips About Lube That Every Woman NEEDS to Know.

    LUBE OR NOT TO LUBE??

     

    Oh, lube. My treasured sex comrade. You're the pit bull of sexual pleasure: You have acquired such a bad reputation but, really, you have a heart of gold and just want to be loved a little more.

    Take a minute to forget the bad rap it's gotten as a quick fix for women who can't get wet enough (Really? Really?). Lube can fill an array of needs — whether that's keeping the engine revving a little longer during a crazed sex-marathon, making you a little bit more slippery, or introducing you to some fun butt play (Why not change it up?). Bottom line, lube is simply fantastic. If you haven't yet stocked up but are in the market, may I — as a Certified Lube Lover* — provide you with some things you might want to know? (*OK, there's no lube lover certification, but, if there was..) Here goes.

    1. You are not broken if you use lube. Its insane that in this day and age, that some women really still feel that way. I don't get it! Using a lubricant does not mean that your vagina isn't functioning properly. If anything, using lube makes you more of a connoisseur of sex and the ambassador of your own pleasure! You are exploring your body, gaining knowledge of that mythical creature known as the orgasm.

    So if anyone tries to tell you that there's something wrong with you or your body because your partial to lube, then they (not you!) have some issues going on. Don’t let anyone tell you your broken it's not true! And if your partner is saying that to you, drop 'em. Seriously they aren't worth it.

    2. It's a must if you want to try anal. Your butt needs lube. I'm not saying you must partake in butt stuff, but if that is something you and your partner are interested in exploring — or you have already adventured to the back side on a regular basis — stock up on a good lube. This is essential for your pleasure. You want a lube that will last the distance (I prefer a silicone lube, but there are also desensitizing comfort lubes and serums).

    There's a vast expanse of options for any type of lubricant, which can feel rather overwhelming at first. I highly recommend taking a trip to one of our local stores and talking to the employees, or checking out the chat on our website, since we know the ins and outs of what can work best. In general, it's a great environment to talk to someone about your specific needs when exploring your body — we are like talking to a therapist, but for your private parts.

    3. Don't use oil-based lubes with condoms. Want to use baby oil or petroleum jelly? NOT! It can deteriorate the latex in a condom and cause it to break. Not good. So if condoms are your only form of birth control, think wisely. If the condom breaks, that can increase your risk of STIs or pregnancy —and those may be two things you want to keep away from your vagina, (well its always best to keep sti's away)

    4. Don't use silicone lubes with silicone sex toys. They can and will cause your silicone toy to break down — part of buying a vibrator 101! When making an investment in your pleasure you want to keep in mind the best care for your new friend to keep it going for longer, and remember that teflon pan that is no longer no stick and all that coating ended up in your dinner without you realizing.. You don’t want a similar experience down there. That said, silicone lubes are great for water play, as water-based lubes obviously wouldn't work with that.

    5. ...But silicone works with condoms. Silicone-based lubes last longer than water-based lubes (which work with both condoms and sex toys). Water-based lubes seem to a popular type of lube, but they also have a tendency to dry out more quickly, so you might need to reapply it during your sex-capades.

     

    6. Popular forms of lubes could cause infections. If you are prone to yeast infections or any other non-fun infections down there, pay heed: A 2013 study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology revealed that women who used products that aren't really supposed to go in their lady bits (like some oils and Vaseline) had much higher rates of yeast and various bacterial infections, most likely because these products messed with their pH balance.

    Oh, you might want to stay away from glycerin, too, depending on the use you are looking for in your new lube, fun fact Glycerin is also an ingredient in laxatives, which means lubes with that ingredient may not bode well with anal sex … if you catch my drift. Decide what your main activity you are looking for and read the ingredients.

     

    7. Just ask!. Remember that we are here to help and if anything seems confusing that an informative decision is only a quick question away. Ask us anything now.

     

    8. There's no catch-all for what lube works for you. Of course, when it comes to your body and your orgasm, research (and trial and error) is key, but remember: Everyone's experience is unique. One woman may be into Uberlube, but maybe you'll prefer Wet Stuff, just like one woman might be down for doing it doggy style and another prefers missionary. All you can do is try and see what puts you on the fast track to incredible pleasure!

    Top 11 Orgasmic Toys Of 2016

    11 Orgasmic Toys That Have Graced Nauti NZ With Their Presence in 2016

    #1 WEVIBE Sync

    WeVibe has always been the No.1 couples vibe and now its even better! They gave us what we all asked for with a better flexibility and spine so once you flex it in place it will really stay there so you don’t need to adjust with while you change positions!, and we better not forget how it has the app sync to customize vibrations and control it remotely, a total must have for anyone who's partners travel for work!

     #2 Rianne S Pussy Playballs

    Think of these as the best pre sex prep work, each set comes with four weighted balls, ranging from 15g to 55g the holder is flexible and allows you to start off with one then work your way up! And did we mention they come in a seriously adorable pouch bag!

     

    #3 Fun Factory Cayona

    This little cutie is your new best friend! With g spot curve and clitoral contact point it covers all bases while being smaller than most of the range and not as intimidating, all while still packing the same power as the larger models!

    .. did we mention free limited edition toy bag with purchase while stocks last?

     

    #4 Satisfyer Pro 2

    Welcome to the fastest lowest pressure orgasm you have ever had. All you need to do is put the Satisfyer Pro 2 on your clit and let it do its thing. Just like a guy going down on you .. but better!

     

    #5 Rianne S Heart Vibe

    Who doesn’t love a heart shaped vibe! 10 Powerful clit stimulating speeds and perfect for couples play as its small discreet and quiet and won't scare away any guys afraid of penis shaped toys!

     

    #6 Boys Will Be Boys Set

    Here's one for the man in your life's stocking this Christmas! This set comes with a powerful multi speed bullet vibe, a cock ring and a stroker sleeve attachment just slip the bullet into the stroker sleeve to add some different play into your hand job or blow job or use the stroker by itself and get him to use the bullet on you! Everyone wins!

     

    #7 Nalone Miu Miu

    Here's a new nauti date night friend, shaped like kegel balls for ease and comfort yet it’s a powerful internal vibe with remote! add to that the great range on the remote and trhe option to pulse the vibrations as you want on top of the preloaded patterns, it’s a great night at the movies or the bar waiting to happen!

     

    #8 WEVIBE Touch 2

    The touch 2 may look little but it packs a powerful punch! With perfect body curve it rests in the palm of you or your partners hand to keep your fingers free for more fun!

     

    #9 OOH Large Motor

    Powerful motor that you can change up into any of your fav toys with a simple click! , pair into the Classic Vibe, Cockring, or Pebble to have fun your way or buy as a set with a variety of attachments!

     

    #10 Rocks Off! Colour Changing

    This is the new face of bullet vibes! 7 speed vibration and it changes colour with your body temp as you reach orgasm! What more could you ask for in a bullet!

     

    #11 MysteryVibe Crescendo

    Have it anyway you want it! 6 strong silent powerful motors, and flexible to create any shape toy you want! Flex it in place and enjoy! The best you can get when you can't make up your mind!

     

    Why Sex Toys Should Be Part of Your Sex Life

    Every couple can be having more enjoyable sex!!

    After all couples that play together stay together right, you don’t have to follow in the footsteps of Fifty Shades of Grey to have fun in the bedroom!! Sex toys can add a whole new dimension to your relationship and make your bond much stronger, spice things up in the bedroom and deliver more satisfying sex.”

     

    Us women are the worst for faking an orgasm, at least 50% of us in-fact have faked an orgasm not once or twice but more often than you think!! Crazy, huh!! Around 75% of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, here’s where a vibrating bullet such as We-Vibe Tango can increase the chances of an orgasm dramatically. Therefore, sex toys should be a part of every couple’s sex life as the best sex includes an orgasm for both parties.

     

     

    Men shouldn’t feel replaced when the suggestion of adding a sex toy to the bedroom comes up in a conversation, it can take the pressure off you to perform longer during sex which can enhance your relationship.   

    Sex toys have come a long way from the basic vibrator, now high ended rechargeable and made from body safe materials the choices are endless. Our top selling products today are part of the We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Lelo & Nalone range. With so many sex toys on the market, it's impossible to know which one she'll like so let her take the lead. She may not even know until she's had a chance to explore. We've found that most women prefer clitoral stimulation, but some enjoy vaginal stimulation with their sex toys, too. Spend an evening shopping in our online store, ask her which ones she likes or is curious about and either make the purchase together or surprise her with an overnight delivery.

     

    Some vibrators, especially small ones, are ideal for partner play, like the all new We-Vibe Sync as they stimulate a woman's clitoris, are designed for use during intercourse when you're together or apart with the control of an app. (Yes, your penis and the We-Vibe Sync can fit in there, when a woman is fully aroused the vagina expands) You, your partner and a sex toy are a threesome that can't be beat.

    Rear entry (doggie style) is ideal for vibrator play as there's plenty of room between her body and the bed if she's on all fours. She or you can hold a small vibrator, such as the We-Vibe Tango to her clitoris in this position.

     

    Nauti Oral Sex Tips For Her

    Give Her Cloud 9 Oral Sex She Won’t Forget!!

    Are you just exploring going down town on your lady? Some say only a woman know how to make a woman feel good, so guys take note!! Advice from a woman for guys. Try our Nauti tips to give her toe curling oral sex that’ll stay on her mind all day!!

    Oral sex is an essential part of foreplay and can make a woman orgasm when done right. It’s also a great way of priming your partner and raising her arousal levels, it also reduces the pressure on you to last longer when having sex. These tips will help you explore what your partner likes, yes it may be a bit of trial and error at first but that’s all part of the fun. Woman love receiving oral sex, but you won’t know for sure if your technique works unless you give it a go. Whatever your partner finds pleasurable is exactly what you need to be doing!

    A lot of men, Yes a lot!! Tend to skip past performing oral sex for their partner, or only do so to receive some in return. But it is the key ingredient for turning your woman on!! If you learn a few tips about giving a girl good oral sex and take the time to get it right, you can bring some extra spice to the bedroom and satisfy your woman time and time again.

     

     

    Don’t Rush

    If you’re not the biggest fan of giving oral sex, or you may not know exactly how to, so you tend to rush into it and try and get it over with. What us woman want is for you to start slowly. Kiss her lips, neck and make your way down her body until you’re kissing her inner thighs. Try and get eye contact as much as possible and position yourself in a comfortably way that you can caress her breasts from time to time. The idea is to turn her on before you start the oral sex and make her tingle.

    Most women are very sensitive to touch, including touch performed by the tongue, so start gently and see what your woman wants. The clitoris is packed full of nerve endings so make sure you listen to her signals.

    Don’t rush into licking the clitoris but when you do, be gentle especially if she’s not fully aroused. Using a clit gel such as the On arousal gel or Sizzle Lips warming gel will intensify the nerves in the clitoris.

     

    Make use of your tongue

    The key to giving a woman good oral sex is to keep moving your tongue. If you’re not sure how, keep it flat and lick up the entire vulva and clitoris. You can do an up and down motion or side to side or both. If you keep your tongue hard and only use the tip, especially in a sharp flicking motion, then you’re denying your girl the softest, wettest and smoothest part of your tongue.

    Use the flatter and softer part of your tongue, especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.

    Remember back at school when you had to learn your ABC’s, well try spelling the alphabet over different areas with your tongue. Don’t go from A right through to Z try a few at a time. You’ll know which one makes her crown jewel quiver, communicate with her!! For instance, if C is the key then have her let you know, she might say/shout c c c c, don’t stop now!! Change the pace get faster and more intense if she likes it.

    And remember it’s not just the clitoris you need to focus on. Draw that alphabet large over the whole area, then medium and small around different parts. Women enjoy the whole area being licked, sucked, kissed and touched, so don’t get caught up just on the clitoris.

    You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will love this, some won’t. Be ready to change, be creative, be flexible and keep working at finding what tongue movements, pressure and speed work on your woman.

    Make use of your hands

    When giving oral sex get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great. You can also use one hand to slightly lift up the ‘hood’ of the clitoris and reveal the more sensitive part for your tongue to stimulate. If you’re good at multi-tasking get your fingers into action, stimulate her G Spot this will intensify her pleasure to the next level.

    Going straight in with the fingers at the start can ruin the potential for an orgasm that a steady build up brings.

     

    Communicate

    It’s not always easy for you to speak to her while you perform oral sex, but listen to the sounds she makes. We women can be a bit shy, but generally most like to talk and say what we like. If your woman isn’t a talker, check for signs such as heavier breathing, moaning, movement of the legs, thrusting and if she’s holding the top of your head, she may grip harder as she’s closer to climaxing.

    If she’s doing any of the above this is your signal to go faster as she’s probably close to climaxing, but do not stop for whatever reason. At this point, your jaw may be aching and your tongue might feel numb but persistence will pay off. You will be rewarded by the knowledge that you’ve given her an amazing orgasm…

    Nothing beats a bit of feedback so ask her afterwards if she liked it and she might offer some tips to make next time even more intense.

     

     

    Change positions

    While exploring, different techniques change things up and try out some new positions and see what works for you both. Perhaps you’d like her to squat or sit on your face she’s now in a prime position to focus solely on the pleasure you are providing. The most common ‘69er' where you both perform oral sex to each other at the same time, or the man on top and in control.

    Whatever you do, mix it up and don’t make things feel like a routine. If she doesn’t quite know what to expect, she’ll be even more turned on, whether the oral sex is for foreplay or for orgasm.

    Hopefully you’ll have gotten the message by now that the key to giving a girl oral sex is to not expect any one thing to work from one time to the next. You need to be flexible, creative and responsive. If she doesn’t tell you exactly what works in words, then you need to find out yourself by trial and error and observing her responses to what you are doing. Enjoy the practice, enjoy the experimenting, and enjoy the feel good sensation when you magically work out exactly what she needs to have orgasms!! 

    A Nauti Girls Blow Job Tips

    Oral Sex Tips That’ll “BLOW” His Mind

     

    Sex is all about exploring what feels good right? It’s not surprising that a lot of great sex involves your mouth, so don’t be afraid to use it. Here are some of our Nauti Girls oral sex tips to give him the best mind blowing blowjob of his life. Don't stress too much on techniques the best tips are related to the psychology of blowjobs. In other words, how do you turn him on when giving him a blowjob and how he gets turned on from a mental perspective.

    Use these tips tonight to give him amazing oral sex he will never forget. The intensity of pleasure you will give him when sucking him off will go up by 110% let’s face it the reason why men love blowjobs is because they’re in a dominant position and able to see all, which is everything that turns a man on.

     

    Confidence

    There are no magic pills when it comes to sexual confidence this will come with practice and positive experiences. When your confident you’ll be able to grasp his shaft, lick it, stroke it and take it into your mouth. Confidence and enthusiasm is by far the biggest turn on for your man, it’s not so much a technique it’s more about your attitude which is incredibly ego boosting for him and empowering for you to know your completely in charge of making your man feel amazing.

    When you’re in a submissive position on your knees, bowing down and worshiping his manhood and all it’s hard glory “Yes” it’s submissiveness but in reality it’s a position of power. You’re in control, besides maybe a bit of hair pulling.

     

    Tease

    Lead up to the blowjob tease him. Start by kissing or licking of his lips or earlobe with slight pressure of the tongue heading down towards the neck and nipples whilst rubbing your fingertips slowly up and down his torso. Come back up when you’re near his member or just below his belly button, and head back down.

    Don't just kiss, lick, suck, rub do whatever you're comfortable with, depends on what he likes experiment a little. Make him wait!! He’ll be so hard and horny as hell for you!! Not only does this foreplay build sizzling tension, but in a new relationship, it gives you a chance to suss out his body and take a good look at what you’re working with!

    Wetter is Better

    Keep a tube of lube nearby, a flavored lubricant such as Wet Stuff Salted Caramel will add juicy flavor for you and feel deliciously slick for him.  It’s a bit like using a tasty sauce with ice-cream both are good by themselves, but it’s a lot more fun with something sweet or fruity.

    Getting a dry mouth is as bad as lock jaw!! The wetter, the slipperier, the hotter he gets and the better the sensation is for him. Apply a dollop of lubricant on your fingertips and smear it evenly all over the head, shaft or wherever you want it. Smear it thin so you get the most out of it, you don’t want to eat it all in one go! Have fun licking and sucking his sweet tasting cock. Treat it just like a lollipop, like it's delicious and you can't get enough.

    Tip: Keep a glass of water nearby too help keep the juices flowing

     

    Pleasure Sounds

    Own those moans, men find it intensely sexy to hear appreciative pleasure noises during oral sex that doesn’t mean you need to go overboard with porn movie like moans and groans. A simple placement of your lips against his penis and humming a blissed out ‘mmmmmm’ sends out travelling vibrations through his manhood.

    Already do this? Why not advance to another level, try adding a J2S oral vibrator it will change your partners oral sex experience.

    As adults we know it’s rude to talk with your mouthful, but given the situation add dirty talk. Hot, steamy, breathless words!!

     

    Eye Contact

    Men are visually stimulated and feel a deeper connection with you when eye contact is made. They like to watch when receiving blowjobs! It’s beneficial for you as well, you can see his facial expressions and determine what he does and doesn’t enjoy. If you feel a bit awkward, plant yourself on his lap and try the tease method again but this time make eye contact.

    Nothing makes a guy enjoy a blowjob more than when he see’s hunger for his penis.

    Plan For A Nauti Night

    Wow your partner & turn things up a notch "Plan For A Nauti Night"

    Let’s face it some of us are unsure or don’t know where to start when it comes to planning a naughty night. No matter your gender we all love to feel extra special or get attention from our spouse. Sure it’s easy enough to grab a bunch of flowers on the way home from work or book dinner for 2 at your favorite restaurant, but think about the brownie points you’ll get when put in superb effort. We’ve put together a quick guide to help you get started.


    Plan ahead

    First things first if you’ve got children (get rid of them) ask a friend or kids grandparents to have them for the weekend. There’s nothing worse then trying to get down and dirty then hearing the sound of little footsteps heading towards your bedroom door. “Major buzz kill”

    Think about what activities you might like to try, jot them down and pinpoint the top five on your to do list. Let your imagination run wild, don’t overthink things, if you are “Stop right there” come back to it later. Once you’ve narrowed things down it’s time to start putting things into action.


    Doe’s your imagination require some Nauti assistance.

    “Tie me up and do me” Like Christian Grey

    “Anal Sex” Any hole’s a goal & up the bum no babies right

    “Watch me have vibrator sex” Let’s turn up the buzz

    “Role play” I’ll be the bunny you be Heff

    “Do him with a strap on” Broke back mountain was hot right

    Communicate

    “One person’s wet dream is another’s wet blanket,” If you pull out your new moves in the heat of the moment, her startled reaction may frighten you both away from dirty sex for another few years. There’s nothing worse then going that extra mile only to be shot down by a negative reaction. Communication is key in all areas of relationships “no less than that in the bedroom” talk things through with your partner, you may be surprised at the positive outcome you receive.


    Keep things safe

    Play it safe, if your imagination unlocks you to a new world of pleasure keep things safe.  

    Safe words Not just made up by the craze of “50 Shades of Grey’, Safe words are an important part of any Bondage play. They allow you to communicate quickly to your partner that you have reached the edge of your comfort zone easily without causing offence. Pick something random and easily remembered, a good idea is to have two safe words, one for reaching the limit/slow down, and one for no/stop that’s enough. Safe words can be anything you like, a basic standard is orange for slow down and red for stop, but personalize them. Have trust in your partner and yourself for only you know your limits. Debriefing can also play an important role after using the safe word talk about the whys and hows. “Why you used the safe word and how can we do things differently” remember safe words don’t close off areas they lead to better experiences allowing you to explore more options and find new heights of pleasure.

    Our Beginners Bondage Kits are suitable for those new to bondage play.

    *Note Roping & Bondage do require safety rules due to the pressure points in the body and extreme techniques. We encourage beginners to do some research, there are groups out there that offer workshops and support.


    Anal Play

    If you're experiencing anal sex for the first time and a bit worried about comfort & hygiene invest in an anal douche to keep things clean. Don’t jump straight into it preparation is the key to fun anal play. Start off with finger play and gradually introduce anal sex toys. Lube it up, there are many types of serums & lubricants available to help with comfort and ease to boost the pleasure.


    Feel the Vibe

    Thinking about using a sex toy, or wondering if most sex toys are safe for individual or couples enjoyment? Yes! Sex toys are perfectly safe so long as they are used for their designed purpose eg. using a bullet or smooth vibrator that has no base for anal play, with slippery hands and whilst experiencing multiple orgasms may cause the toy to get stuck in the anal canal resulting in surgical removal. Regular cleaning of sex toys will increase its life expectancy and a must to minimize bacterial growth, invest in a good quality toy cleaner and take care not to miss any residue as this may feel uncomfortable during the next use.


    Characterize

    Day dreaming over Cat-woman? Can't stop thinking about Magic Mike? Who says you can’t have it all?

    Get a pair of sexy men's undies, or a dean’s list schoolgirl outfit. Role Play can be a Nauti way to spice things up. Be a new person for the night, you don't have to limit it to the bedroom. Try going to a bar separately, pretending to be someone else and meeting your partner for the first time. Introduce yourself, ask all the questions to get to know them from the start then convince them to come home with you. Get hot and heavy like it’s the first time or live out your dreams by being with your favorite character.

    Dressing up isn't all for her! We have a range of sexy menswear in-store and online, from fishnet side trunks, to breakaway thong’s we have you covered... Or uncovered. You would be surprised at how much fun you can have by being someone else for a night. All this role play talk leads us onto….


    Role reversal

    Switch it up, strap-on's aren't just for using on her they can be a new sense of enjoyment for him as well. Feel the empowerment of man by doing it “Doggy Style” Again don’t just go straight into action, whilst you’re giving him a blowjob use your fingers to heat things up by softly rubbing the perineum/anus region. Use a slow circular motion at first if he’s hesitant cut back, but don’t stop completely wait till he’s fully aroused and in the thrusting motion then continue. Let’s not forget to moisten things up have some lube on standby.


            

    Set the mood

    Prepare and assemble your set when your partners out it doesn’t have to be rocket science. It’s as simple as a few candles, massage oil or nice hot bath run for her/him with bubble bath and a glass of wine, or for a full romantic set up try our Dona romance me gift sets.

    If bondage is on your list set out your gear on the bedside table or bottom of the bed. You might like to add a touch of nice and tie some rope in a bow and place on your pillow. A beginners bondage kit will complete the scene. For far reaching anticipation a set of under-bed restraints will bind your lover at your every whim.     

    “Once you’ve got the mood set the Nauti stuff will come hot and heavy”

    Dress to get undressed

    Be adventurous spice things up a little, buy some new sexy lingerie or a Nauti outfit. Take your boudoir dressing up a level, accessorize with shoes or jewelry. The only thing sexier than a woman in lingerie is a woman in lingerie with sexy heels wearing a necklace that doesn't come off when everything else does. Don't wear panties on your next date night (even if it’s just at the house) but especially if it's out in public; a little potential voyeurism goes a long way. It literally takes all of five seconds to go commando. Remember to keep it simple, try not to go overboard with hooks, straps and buckles it can slow down the fun plus sometimes less is more.Your Guy will thank you for it.
    Guys you can dress to impress as well a tie & briefs will do the trick, “Yes it’s that easy”



       

    Add something extra

    Toys Hit the spots you’ve never hit before or may not have known about. A vibrator or prostate stimulator can take you and your partner to newfound heights of pleasure unlike any other. With such a diverse variety of sex toys available on the market today your options are endless. If you’re unsure, think about what pleasure points turns you on.. Vaginal, Clitoral stimulation, Anal, Milking the prostate sky’s the limit!! Start small and work your way to up!!      

    Vouchers Try writing down your ideas and new things you would like to experience on paper and putting them in a jar, get your partner to do the same and once a week take turns picking an idea out of the jar, it doesn't need to be all dirty sex ideas it could be as simple as a massage,

    Get into it 

    Relax and get into the groove of things for a cloud nine experience, if you’re feeling it they’re feeling it. Speak a little dirty or give your partner an inviting lap-dance to get him/her in the mood “Guys can give lap dances too” Get excited, Get into it, Get Nauti!!

        

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