Give Her Cloud 9 Oral Sex She Won’t Forget!!
Are you just exploring going down town on your lady? Some say only a woman know how to make a woman feel good, so guys take note!! Advice from a woman for guys. Try our Nauti tips to give her toe curling oral sex that’ll stay on her mind all day!!
Oral sex is an essential part of foreplay and can make a woman orgasm when done right. It’s also a great way of priming your partner and raising her arousal levels, it also reduces the pressure on you to last longer when having sex. These tips will help you explore what your partner likes, yes it may be a bit of trial and error at first but that’s all part of the fun. Woman love receiving oral sex, but you won’t know for sure if your technique works unless you give it a go. Whatever your partner finds pleasurable is exactly what you need to be doing!
A lot of men, Yes a lot!! Tend to skip past performing oral sex for their partner, or only do so to receive some in return. But it is the key ingredient for turning your woman on!! If you learn a few tips about giving a girl good oral sex and take the time to get it right, you can bring some extra spice to the bedroom and satisfy your woman time and time again.
If you’re not the biggest fan of giving oral sex, or you may not know exactly how to, so you tend to rush into it and try and get it over with. What us woman want is for you to start slowly. Kiss her lips, neck and make your way down her body until you’re kissing her inner thighs. Try and get eye contact as much as possible and position yourself in a comfortably way that you can caress her breasts from time to time. The idea is to turn her on before you start the oral sex and make her tingle.
Most women are very sensitive to touch, including touch performed by the tongue, so start gently and see what your woman wants. The clitoris is packed full of nerve endings so make sure you listen to her signals.
Don’t rush into licking the clitoris but when you do, be gentle especially if she’s not fully aroused. Using a clit gel such as the On arousal gel or Sizzle Lips warming gel will intensify the nerves in the clitoris.
Make use of your tongue
The key to giving a woman good oral sex is to keep moving your tongue. If you’re not sure how, keep it flat and lick up the entire vulva and clitoris. You can do an up and down motion or side to side or both. If you keep your tongue hard and only use the tip, especially in a sharp flicking motion, then you’re denying your girl the softest, wettest and smoothest part of your tongue.
Use the flatter and softer part of your tongue, especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.
Remember back at school when you had to learn your ABC’s, well try spelling the alphabet over different areas with your tongue. Don’t go from A right through to Z try a few at a time. You’ll know which one makes her crown jewel quiver, communicate with her!! For instance, if C is the key then have her let you know, she might say/shout c c c c, don’t stop now!! Change the pace get faster and more intense if she likes it.
And remember it’s not just the clitoris you need to focus on. Draw that alphabet large over the whole area, then medium and small around different parts. Women enjoy the whole area being licked, sucked, kissed and touched, so don’t get caught up just on the clitoris.
You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will love this, some won’t. Be ready to change, be creative, be flexible and keep working at finding what tongue movements, pressure and speed work on your woman.
Make use of your hands
When giving oral sex get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great. You can also use one hand to slightly lift up the ‘hood’ of the clitoris and reveal the more sensitive part for your tongue to stimulate. If you’re good at multi-tasking get your fingers into action, stimulate her G Spot this will intensify her pleasure to the next level.
Going straight in with the fingers at the start can ruin the potential for an orgasm that a steady build up brings.
It’s not always easy for you to speak to her while you perform oral sex, but listen to the sounds she makes. We women can be a bit shy, but generally most like to talk and say what we like. If your woman isn’t a talker, check for signs such as heavier breathing, moaning, movement of the legs, thrusting and if she’s holding the top of your head, she may grip harder as she’s closer to climaxing.
If she’s doing any of the above this is your signal to go faster as she’s probably close to climaxing, but do not stop for whatever reason. At this point, your jaw may be aching and your tongue might feel numb but persistence will pay off. You will be rewarded by the knowledge that you’ve given her an amazing orgasm…
Nothing beats a bit of feedback so ask her afterwards if she liked it and she might offer some tips to make next time even more intense.
While exploring, different techniques change things up and try out some new positions and see what works for you both. Perhaps you’d like her to squat or sit on your face she’s now in a prime position to focus solely on the pleasure you are providing. The most common ‘69er' where you both perform oral sex to each other at the same time, or the man on top and in control.
Whatever you do, mix it up and don’t make things feel like a routine. If she doesn’t quite know what to expect, she’ll be even more turned on, whether the oral sex is for foreplay or for orgasm.
Hopefully you’ll have gotten the message by now that the key to giving a girl oral sex is to not expect any one thing to work from one time to the next. You need to be flexible, creative and responsive. If she doesn’t tell you exactly what works in words, then you need to find out yourself by trial and error and observing her responses to what you are doing. Enjoy the practice, enjoy the experimenting, and enjoy the feel good sensation when you magically work out exactly what she needs to have orgasms!!